silence brings u closer!!!
My grandfather once asked me, "why do you shout when in anger, or sometimes you just grind your teeth together or you try hard not to say something when in anger.?" "I don't know dadu." I replied. He explained, when 2 people are in anger, their hearts distance from each other and to be heard, they need to shout. On the contrary, when u are with your loved one, your voice tends to be softer, you can understand each other through whispers, you become calm and when this relationship becomes more stronger, you just need to look in their eyes to know what they feel. Silence is the sign of being close, silence brings you closer, closest of all, from the times of rishis till today, meditation is done in silence, both internal and external. There is a need to create a strong relationship with oneself, so strong that you need not to explain yourself how you are feeling, you need not to be with someone else to make yourself happy. Practice silence, it wil...