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silence brings u closer!!!

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My grandfather once asked me,  "why do you shout when in anger, or sometimes you just grind your teeth together or you try hard not to say something when in anger.?" "I don't know dadu." I replied.  He explained, when 2 people are in anger, their hearts distance from each other and to be heard, they need to shout. On the contrary, when u are with your loved one, your voice tends to be softer,  you can understand each other through whispers, you become calm and when this relationship becomes more stronger, you just need to look in their eyes to know what they feel. Silence is the sign of being close,  silence brings you closer, closest of all, from the times of rishis till today, meditation is done in silence, both internal and external. There is a need to create a strong relationship with oneself, so strong that you need not to explain yourself how you are feeling, you need not to be with someone else to make yourself happy. Practice silence, it wil...

upset? let's feel better together!

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 Hey, it's been long  I haven't posted anything, got a bit taken up! Hope you are doing well! wait, I guess you  too are suffering in some way or the other! That's why the title attracted you to read! Well, no offense, just a cranky guess! :) Let's first know what's bothering you, is it a broken relationship or a unbroken, lethargic bond of some old friendship, or your random thoughts? be it anything, I may offer you a solution, which may slightly decrease the suffering, or maybe will help you to prevent further ones!!! OKAY, before I explain you the dosage of  immunity medicine I am offering here, hehe😅 lemme tell you the solution, in case you get it here, you need not to read the entire blog, else, my reader, you are always welcome!! see, whatever problem you are in, accept the fact that it's gonna be alright, but understand what brought you here, THE INPUT!! what I mean is, if you want to prevent unnecessary thoughts, problems in your life, limi...

Truth- the ultimate beauty!

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The title to all of us maybe contrary, also , maybe we all are aware of the fact that NOBODY IS PERFECT! aren't we? This blog won't be telling the remedies to love yourself or some high class stuff, that only saint could understand. Here, today we will explore, how imperfection is so beautiful, more to it how we are so unique in this unique planet!!! Have you ever thought of the moon without those scars? Ever thought about the river without stones? do you think ever think about how pale and lifeless, life would be without the sad moments? The imperfections are a color to our lives, the music to our lyrics, the calmness of moon resides in its scars!! The beauty of night is darkness-An imperfection. The little fights in our beautiful relationships are the spark of it,  an attempt to reach perfection is always lit!!!! Although thinking of everything as perfect seems so beautiful, but you know what, there is no perfection, and there is no  ultimate beauty in perfectio...

what is self love?

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Let's take a minute, pause the task in your head for sometime, and ask yourself, do you love yourself? Do you make yourself a priority? Do you feel happy and confident? Most importantly, ask yourself, can you be happy alone? Can you go to a coffee shop or a resturant alone, feeling comfortable with yourself? Can you gift yourself a movie night without your friends? Can you sit in your room alone, without phone, without netflix or without your favourite book? Today's generation, including me are so much taken by and in our environment, 'THE EXTERNAL ENVIRONMENT' that we forget about ourselves, we forget about our identity, we always want to be perfect and for that, we try to be someone else. We always forget, we maybe not the best of all, but we are UNIQUE in ourselves. we have a potential which no one else have. we have a place which no one else can take from us. Self love is accepting yourself as you are, ofcourse with the consistent thought of improving  a...

The Art of 'ACCEPTANCE'

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 So , you recently had a heartbreak, or a failure, or a big- big  financial loss? Did you do your best and still couldn't save the relationship or you couldn't succeed  or even after all the marketing strategies you had a huge financial loss? Obiviously, if you are in this kind of situation where you did your best but you could not get the expected results, maybe you would be hurt, broken or maybe at the worst you would have given up by  this time. Are you one of them?  If yes, then this topic is especially written for you. Everyone around us have a goal and we all want to excel in our fields , we want to be the best, and that is completely normal; more than normal; its amazing, when one tries to attain the best of them, read it again, i said ' BEST OF THEM' . By emphasing on ' THEM ' i underlined a very important and a very practical fact, that we all are aware of, but we tend to forget it very often. You can only be best version of you,  there...

What is INTROSPECTION?

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 How much do you know yourself? Do you know what is your favourite colour? or your favourite rom-com! or your favourite celebrity? Well,i am not talking about all of it! I am talking about your mental, spiritual and emotional side!  Do you ever sit in a place,quietly,asking yourself questions about your sadness or any other emotion? I am not talking about meditation or other stuff! I am talking about 'INTROSPECTION'. Self Introspection is as basic as food and water, and we , in our everyday lives; skip this basic necessity. we don't know,what we want from our emotional side,what our soul demands of! Have you ever felt that you are lonely and need to talk to someone? or have you ever found yourself  asking solutions to other people about your problems! huh,then you need to Introspect, because everything in your life has originated from you,and will end in you. Every solution lies inside you. A best friend of yours is'YOU'.  You are a complete entity in yo...

Visualising is the key!

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Do you daydream about things?Do u have a passion? Do you want to be successful? If yes, then lets explore the art of visualization together! what is visualising? In simple words,it means forming a mental image of things! But, the question arises -is  this good? will it waste our time or will it harm our view of reality? You must have come across these type of questions in your life.If yes,then let  me tell you, there is a very thin line between imagining and visualising. While you visualize ,you see things happening in your mind with regulations. imagination sometimes takes you out of reality! WHY VISUALISATION? Its the key to success. When you know the end point of your journey, when  you know where you want to be in life! when uh know what life expects from you,when you know what you want from your life! when you feel your success comming your way , then you will definetly  succeed. All this comes from visualisation! when you know your 'WHY',HOW' become...