what is self love?

Let's take a minute, pause the task in your head for sometime, and ask yourself, do you love yourself? Do you make yourself a priority? Do you feel happy and confident? Most importantly, ask yourself, can you be happy alone?

Can you go to a coffee shop or a resturant alone, feeling comfortable with yourself? Can you gift yourself a movie night without your friends? Can you sit in your room alone, without phone, without netflix or without your favourite book?

Today's generation, including me are so much taken by and in our environment, 'THE EXTERNAL ENVIRONMENT' that we forget about ourselves, we forget about our identity, we always want to be perfect and for that, we try to be someone else. We always forget, we maybe not the best of all, but we are UNIQUE in ourselves. we have a potential which no one else have. we have a place which no one else can take from us.

Self love is accepting yourself as you are, ofcourse with the consistent thought of improving  and being a better version of yourself , talking to yourself when you know that no one is permanent, it is loving,  caring and accepting yourself. Self love is all about spending time with yourself. 

You must be having a storm inside you right now, or maybe some tensions, some stress and most of us are trying to run from it. No, don't run STOP, tell yourself, it is okay to feel this way, everything will fall into place in its own time. 

You don't have to be the one who is always pleasing  others and sacrificing your own happiness for people who don't even matter. In the contemporary times, we cannot make everyone happy, at some time, some person will always have some complains, you are not always entitled to make them happy or complain free, but, YOU ARE ALWAYS  ENTITLED TO YOURSELF AND  TO YOUR HAPPINESS.

Be happy, stay blessed and love yourself.❤️